Tradition
As wedding traditions go, one of the most well known is, “Something old, something new. Something borrowed, something blue.” As of yesterday I’ve got one down and three to go.
Backstory
My great grandmother is the sweetest woman anyone has ever met. At 86 years old she’s is simply a joy to be around. I can truly say that she is one of my favorite people.
A few weeks ago, I ask my grandma if she would be kind enough to contribute my “something old”. I’m sure she said something like, “Old? Psshht – You can just take me!” – Yes, she still has a sense of humor too.
Well yesterday, when I went to visit her, without even saying anything, she lugged out a dresser drawer from her room. When I told her she should’ve let me get it, of course she didn’t want to hear it.
The Big Reveal
Anyway, the drawer was full of old handkerchiefs that she had been saving. There were some that were souvenirs from other states, some satin, and some that she had never even worn. But my favorites, were the ones that she had hand-crocheted and hand-tatted herself.
The Old Loot
I ended up taking about 10 handkerchiefs and a necklace, but I’m not sure which I’ll incorporate in the wedding or how. I’m just glad to have these as lasting memories of my grandmother even after the one day wedding. These were 3 of my favorite and the picture on the bottom right is of the lace my grandmother did by hand.
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They’re beautiful! We don’t have things like that anymore, ya know? Take care of those and you can give them to your great-grandchildren someday. Lucky you!
By Kel L on 11.24.08 9:06 pm | Permalink
What a lovely story. Having those handkerchiefs is really a treasure. You are so lucky to still have living grandparents. From the way you describe your grandma, I can see where you get your good character from!
By Rebecca on 11.27.08 9:14 pm | Permalink
These are beautiful! You’re grandma sounds like an amazing woman.
By Nicole on 12.02.08 12:21 pm | Permalink
I was at a wedding once and the bride was given her late grandfathers hanky. She used it around her bouquet instead of ribbon or silk, it was beautiful and so nice to have him as part of her big day!
By Brandi on 04.23.09 12:18 pm | Permalink
That was a great story. I hope that you were able to incorporated both the necklace and the handkerchiefs. I am not as lucky to have my grandmas hankies but I did get her china =0. For those brides who would still like the vintage feel of a hankie but didn’t have one passed down, go to weddinghandkerchiefshop.com, a site that has the most beautiful selection. The needle work on these handkerchiefs are amazing and probably the closest I am going to get. This way I can start the tradition and pass them down to my children.
Peace and blessings!
By Rochell on 12.21.09 3:43 pm | Permalink
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